Chatting with my sister

Chatting with my sister How to talk to a girl is a learned thing, so what can you do to capture your sister's heart, or at least the conversation? Here are some tips for my summary, and it's my pleasure to help you: The first layer skills. Attention to chat itself, rather than a lot of people don't know how to chat topic chat with girls Often he says, did not have the topic And I think: There's no need to talk about it! Topic chat: When we talk, we always want to focus on the topics we want to talk about, and we don't focus on the conversation itself: So we often have the following: For example: Me: did you eat? (raising a topic) MM: ate Me: what are you doing? (another topic) MM: get to the Internet Me: how is the weather? (another topic) MM: you can also Me: are you busy lately? (another topic) MM: not busy I:... (there's no talk, because there's a lot of talk.) Me: oh, well, I just want to call you and ask what you're doing. Do you keep busy, bye MM: bye bye Because at this point in your mind, what do I say? What do you talk about with MM? This often goes to a dead end, and when you finish the topic, you'll find that you're dumb! And the right message is: to focus on the conversation itself, not the topic of the conversation, not the question of what to talk about, but how to talk about it Key words: For example, Me: did you eat? (key word: dinner) MM: eat! Me: what do you eat? (by keyword eating) MM: beef noodles! Me: did you make it yourself? (inspired by the key words of the meal) MM: I can't cook and buy. Me: you can't cook, a girl house, even do meal, see you how to marry out (triggered by the keyword can't cook a new keywords Marry) MM: I don't want to do it. It used to be my mother's. Me: it used to be before. Now you're grown up. Girls want to learn how to cook. Do you know that your wife doesn't cook? (the key word for a new keyword is a wife.) MM: I haven't thought of marrying yet... (keyword marriage) Me: your mother really hurts you. (keyword mom causes a new keyword pain.) MM: my mother hurt me very much. I'm the youngest, and of course it hurts me. Me: you are the youngest? You have brothers and sisters? (the key word for keyword is the new keyword sibling) MM: my sister, BLABLABLAL... (a lot of) go here Find the key word here in about the same Immediately return to the earlier conversation keywords to marry can use on top of the upper conversation occurs when the keywords of chat! Me: haven't you ever thought about what kind of people you want to marry? (by keyword marriage) MM: not yet. BLABLABLAL... (keywords: no thought good) Me: what is your standard? (the keywords don't really want to trigger) MM: my standard is. BLABLABLAL... (a lot of) this time found she said there was no key words Or the key word here is bad for your topic Immediately return to the earlier conversation about the keywords of chat! For example, keyword buying in line 6 Me: you like to buy things. Do you like to go to shopping? (the new keyword, shopping, was triggered by earlier keyword purchases.) MM: like it. (key words: like) Me: what else do you like to do? (the key words like to trigger) MM: like singing, swimming, traveling (new keywords: singing, swimming, traveling) Me: oh, who do you like to sing? MM:... Me: oh, you like swimming? How is your swimming skill? Where do you usually go? MM:... Me: oh, how do you like traveling through those places? How do you feel? MM:... Don't dwell on a keyword and grab a key word for a certain stop! Return to the last keyword to chat to a certain extent stop! Return to the last one and talk about half of the keywords. Return to the top key word for a certain amount of stop! Go back to the first keyword to talk... You'll find that you're not going to get ready for the whole conversation and the conversation itself will bring you endless conversations! You don't have to be ready to start talking and you're not going to be stressed you're not going to have to worry about what I should be talking about? Because you will have many topics To you all don't know what to choose to talk about what is important is that you have something to say, and entered a good chat atmosphere, and MM about what is not important, important is that in this kind of atmosphere, is fun, teasing each other, humorous conversation. Then, of course, this series of SuoSuo if no key, no nutrition, and I want to say is, this is just one example, to talk to girls when only a few words of the AFC can have words to say, not ice, I would not have been so ask, this process should be interactive, I can only say that this is just a skeleton of a chat, and chat to make interesting, it is necessary to add framework, push and pull, cold read, DHV story, practice Make it plump up, chat make it meaningful -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- The second layer technique maintains the frame in the conversation the girl will voluntarily give you the test and in the face of the girl's test how do you face? Correct method is to give her a trap Let her jump in first You can jump in She doesn't jump You don't jump the most simple example This is I saw in the mystery man video tutorial: MM: how old are you? (MM) you I: 28 years old (I jump into her trap, at this time her strong frame absorbs my weak frame I become bored) MM: how old are you? (MM) you I: can you guess what? (I gave her a trap) MM: I guess you 26 (MM jump into the trap) Me: actually I 30 (she jumped first, so I jump) MM: how old are you? (MM) you I: can you guess what? (I gave her a trap) MM: I don't guess, you tell me (MM not jump) Me: you won't be able to guess. I: how old are you? (I tested the MM and put her in the trap.) MM: you guess? (MM test me, she returns me a trap) Me: do you want me to guess lower or higher? (don't jump into the trap.) MM: guess gao (MM hold fast to jump in) I: I guess you 24 (MM jump me hind jump) MM: my 26 extension for example: MM: I want to eat hot pot you invite me (MM test you) I: well, I'll invite you to go shopping with me tomorrow. MM: I can't. I'm busy tomorrow. I'd like to have dinner. (keep trying to trap you. If you jump is a weak frame) Me: busy tomorrow? That's a good thing to wait for the hot pot and you'll go shopping in the night market with me. (I'll give her a trap after she's caught.) MM: I'll go back in the evening. It's too late. (how long can you keep up with the trap?) Me: no, I won't. Next time please, I'll find someone to accompany me to buy my clothes. (stick to it! Don't jump in her trap.) MM: please let me have a hot pot and that's so hard. So wait until I have time to buy your clothes and shop? (to keep you in the trap of trying to deal with you with such vague language.) Me: when do you have the practice, the day after tomorrow? Stay with me the day after tomorrow. MM: all right. I: I may be late for dinner, maybe a little late. You may want to call me later. MM: that's good. (MM framework is completely absorbed by you. Framework of maintaining the MM feel strong hold your framework Eventually absorbs low framework of MM In the chat So MM fooled appeal ______________________________________________________ The third layer of skill is what I think of as a pull: it means that you like MM to praise MM on purpose to close the relationship with MM Push: just don't like to suppress and ignore MM Flexible use makes the emotion of MM to fall down and down to make the MM feel to you Example 1: Me: I was in my class before high school and you were a lot of beautiful people. MM: ha ha of course. Why didn't you chase me Me: I liked you, too. (pull) MM: ha ha really ah you don't be to keep in secret love me Me: that's not how it used to be. MM: oh, you're doing well recently. We have time to come out and talk Me: hehe is very busy recently may not be time (push away) MM: that's good to have time to say again after the push and pull Use of obedience test whether an effect on it I: if you ask me to eat delicious I may go to (obedience test) MM: then I will treat you to the next day for example 2: I don't know if you've seen du lala's promotion, but wang wei is a great user of push-pull The scene at the beach and du lala (xu) close walk together, chatting Huddle together to watch the sea and du lala catch fireflies Intimate play (wang wei to use the skill of) Then later on to kiss Suddenly opened the du lala And in the next party Ignore du lala and other beauty close (wang wei to use the techniques of push) At this time, du lala felt emotions in her heart Wang wei then texted du lala: "I'm outside you out!" Using the techniques of obedience test (wang wei) du lala came out Took du lala's hand and then go to check in (wang wei before pushing for deeper purpose is TD rather than a kiss) ___________________________________________________________________ The fourth layer technique. DHV story Tell a story about someone else Telling the story of someone else, I think the point is to get a sense of humor and pay attention to the way it is told. Tell your story Above story, no doubt, has the important status in the chat with MM, every one of us, in his experience has a lot of stories, but if you just tell a story, about your own experience, not add any DHV elements in time and tell a story, can only bring you into friendship. And the person who is good at the story, you can't hear the intentional "bragging" element in it. In a story, it is clever to tell your DHV point. ____________________________________________________________ - Fifth floor skills about ideas, words practice the source of the ideas, can look at other people's understanding, also can understand themselves, form their own view about some things. This will depend on oneself the usual thinking, more and form their own view, in fact, in the process of interaction with others, can absorb the good use. Look at the newspaper, some comments on the Internet, think about it, talk to others, Take good ideas from others and make your own ideas better. For example, song joaquin is on the way to dingshan lake Seaweed: "song secretary, can I ask you a question? Why do you take this car? I think it's a good thing to have a slave to get up in the car." Song Siming: "I said algae, this special car but the British royal family, is called a land rover, you don't think it's ugly, I think he is the most beautiful a car inside." -- -- -- -- Song Siming: "" the drive of man, has a bloody, hope to have a land rover, suppress in the city for a long time, hope you can like a group of wild horses, a mane, the wind falling grew up in grassland, land rover is the man's legs, air blowing in the wind." -- -- -- -- -- about view Song siming: "this car can't see in the city..." Song siming: "this man, a lifetime to have a good car, a bosom friend, and one..." -- -- -- -- Example 2: after the algae gave song siming her sister's difficulties in buying a house... Zalman song: "... the seaweed, years of experience told me that anyone who can solve the money problem, is not a big problem. People in my life, there are a lot of trouble is unable to solve, for example, physical, for example the rebellious from, for example, for example, no longer fall in love. All this, than a house, money is much more difficult. I think you're right. Because the person is the life, you can back the debt of money, but not the feelings of the debt. The hope of back money you have paid off the debt, and the feelings of the debt may to death will be guilty. Really want to change a Angle, algae the kindness that you are a good girl, David Beckham the happy! Do you have a grateful heart, you will remember whom they have to give you kindness, that David Beckham is a good thing. Will you be in the elder sister today difficult time lend a helping hand, later if Beckham had difficulties, you will not be rude. At this point, I'd with Beckham's view is not the same. If a person even regardless of the family, you can count on him for anything else?" -- -- -- -- "Unfortunately, Beckham doesn't think so," she said. Song Siming: "becks don't think so, you will understand. Because he can't afford to lose. People are generous, because he has more than the profligate. We put the generous as a kind of praise, because most people can't do this. Especially are relevant to the outsiders. Standing on the ground of onlookers, you and David are not wrong, wrong in the experience and life experience is not enough to see through all this. You said sister of love I understand. That had been given only one child at home reading books, my brother took the opportunity to me. So, now we two people live in two different circumstances. Not me smarter than him, I'm better than he is successful, but in front of the opportunity to face, he left. I hope so, I no matter how high walk how far, I will feel everything is brother to me today, if for him, maybe he better than me. Great people, is not that you do the much less contribution to society, how many achievements, but in the face of temptation, you know sacrifice..." -- -- -- -- - When you say these things, MM is looking up at you. ____________________________________________________________________ The sixth layer technique evoked curiosity of MM I think at the beginning of the meet MM, should give her first feeling was curious, let her have a curiosity, what's the story of the man??? For example, song siming and kelp met for the first time Song: "have a family?" Hai: "not yet" Song "the future" Here's the point. What is song siming trying to do with the first side of the algae? A sense of humor? No, for the first time with a girl, I think you're going to give her a mystery, make her curious, you can say something wonderful... Curious about you, why would he say that? strange Example 2: everyone has a secret (south Korean PUA movie) When the hero meets his third sister, the first sentence is: "hello, I've heard a lot about you." Say hello, everyone will say, but what about the following sentence? The curiosity that makes every woman want to see this man for the first time, he said that I have heard a lot about me, what is it.