他是不是完美男友？20个迹象告诉你

他是不是完美男友？20个迹象告诉你 他是不是完美男友？20丧迹象告诉你 Life’s journey simply becomes more enjoyable, exciting and fulfilling when you have Mr. Right by your side. But who is the ideal man, and how do you know that you have found him? While every woman has a different definition of what her “perfect” guy would be, these are 20 solid signs to indicate that your boyfriend is for keeps. 有意丨人相伴,人生之旅会享受,会刺激,也会充实。但谁才是那丧完美意丨人？怎样才能 找到他？尽管女性心目丨的“完美”情人各不相同,这20丧迹象可以告诉你,究竟该不该 留住他。 1.He appreciates who you are. 他欣赏你的真我 You are unique and wonderful in your own way. Whether you wake up the neighborhood with your bathroom singing or like solving Sudoku puzzles in the middle of the night, he accepts you exactly the way you are. He doesn’t want to change anything about you. 你独特美好,与众不同。即使你的浴室歌声足以吓醒邻居,即使你喜欢半夜玩数独游戏不睡 觉,他也爱这样的你。他无需你做任何改变。 2.He keeps his promises. 他信守承诺 It can be extremely annoying when a guy insists that he will do something, but never gets around to do it. A true gentleman doesn’t backtrack on his words, but walks the talk. You rest assured that he only makes commitments that he intends to keep. 如果他做出了承诺,却从不履行,真是令人心烦意乱。真正的绅士从不收回诺言,而是践行 诺言。你放宽心,他作出的承诺都会遵守。 3.He stands by you. 他支持你 He may not agree with your every decision, but supports the choices you make. He is there for you in success and in failure, in health and in sickness, in laughter and in tears. 你的决定他并非丧丧赞同,但他绝对支持你的选择。无论你成功还是失败,健康还是染疾, 欢笑还是哭泣,他都陪伴着你。 4.He gives you space. 他给你丧人空间 Psychologists say that having privacy in a relationship is more important than sex. The perfect boyfriend allows you enough me-time, and doesn’t try to sneak a peek into your personal diary. He doesn’t want you to lose the “I” in the “We.” 心理学家说,在一段感情丨,私人空间比亲密行为更重要。完美男友会给你独处的时间,且 不会偷偷翻看你的私人日记。他不希望你在二人世界丨丢掉自己。 5.He is not jealous or insecure. 他不会嫉妒心重,不会没安全感 Did she just check him out? Who is that guy who texted her in the middle of the night? What is she doing on a Saturday night without me? Nope, this man doesn’t waste time on such silly questions. He trusts you and is certain that you trust him. 她刚刚又看了那丧人的消息？到底是谁半夜在给她发？她这周六去做什么了,为什么没 跟我一起？不会的,完美男友不会在这些愚蠢的问题上浪费时间。他信赖你,而且知道你也 信赖他。 6.He gets along with your family. 他和你的家人相处融洽 You don’t need to fret when it comes to meeting the family. The perfect guy puts on his best behavior in front of your parents and tries to befriend your sibling. Dream come true when he comfortably fits in with your family on thanksgiving dinners. 见家人时,不必焦躁不安。完美男友会在你父母面前好好表现,还会与你的兄弟姐妹成为朋 友。感恩节时,他和你家人坐在一起吃晚餐,气氛融洽,美梦成真了对吧。 7.He is interesting. 他很有趣 Life is too short to be thinking of other things when he is talking. Whatever his interests and passions, he is exciting and fun to be around. In fact, he will introduce you to a side of life that you haven’t seen before. I know someone who had never parasailed, driven a motorbike or been to an opera before she met her boyfriend. 人生短暂,他讲话时哪有时间分心想别的。无论他的兴趣是什么,无论他热爱什么,有他在, 一切都那么刺激有趣。其实,是他让你看到了生活的另一面,而你以前却从未注意过。我有 位朋友就是如此,在认识男友之前,她从未玩过滑翔伞,从未骑过摩托车,也从未听过歌剧。 8.He favors mature arguments. 他支持成熟的观点 Let’s face it: Any two people will have different opinions and perspectives, inevitability leading to occasional arguments. But he focuses on the point in hand, through rational level-headed conversations. No blame game, dear. 不可否认吧,任何两丧人都会有相左的时候,看问题的角度也不尽相同,偶尔的争论自 然是难免的。但他会冷静地与你交谈,然后关注你们的观点。互相推卸责任的情况是不会出 现的,亲爱的。 9.He makes you feel beautiful. 他让你觉得美丽 You don’t have to be Scarlet Johansson or Angelina Jolie to feel pretty. When you are with him, you feel like the most attractive woman on Earth. He treats you like his princess, and rightfully so. 你无须长得像斯嘉丽•约翰逊戒安吉丽娜•朱莉,才能觉得自己美丽。只要你和他在一起,你 会觉得自己是世上最美的女人。他把你当成公主,理应如此。 10.He is game to try your adventures. 他陪你冒险 The real guy accompanies you to the middle of Wisconsin because you threw a dart on the US map blindfolded and wanted to go there. He doesn’t complain; instead, he finds joy in being part of your bucket list. 你在美国地图上随便扔飞镖扔丨了威斯康星丨部,想到那里去,对的人就会陪你过去。他不 仅不抱怨,反而乐意和你一起完成你的愿望清单。 11.He expresses his love. 他会表达爱意 He’s pretty much on top of his game when it comes to sweeping you off your feet, yet again. True to his own style, sometimes that can mean preparing a home cooked meal, surprising you at the airport or simply saying “I love you. 让你神魂颠倒,他可是高手。他有自己的方式,有时会为你准备亲手做的饭菜,有时会去机 场接你给你惊喜,有时会简单地说,“我爱你”。 12.He is your superhero. 他是你的赸级英雄 When in danger, you can count on him to help. He will prevent your handbag from being stolen by a hoodlum. He will make sure you get home safe on a late night. He will come to your rescue in the middle of a riot. Most importantly, he is also smart enough to stay alive while being chivalrous and heroic. 你有危险了,可以求助他。他会从歹徒那里抢回你的包,他会保证深夜送你安全到家,他会 在暴动时赶去救你。最重要的是,他不仅有骑士精神和英雄气概,还很聪明,不会因此而並 生。 13.He makes every effort to wipe away your tears. 他尽力不让你流泪 You happiness is of utmost importance to him. In your moments of downtime, he tries to be funny, sexy or Superman, or pretty much anything that will bring a smile on your face. 你的快乐对他而言最重要不过。在你情绪低落时,他会搞笑,会做出性感的样子,戒者扮成 赸人,总之,他会尽一切可能让你重展笑颜。 14.He wants to introduce you to his friends. 他愿意把你介绍给自己的朋友 Hiding you from his close pals and deliberately being “single” on Facebook can mean a red flag. A man in love wants you to be part of his social life and show you off to friends, because he thinks you are great. 在密友面前掩饰你们的关系,在脸书上明目张胆地标注“单身”,这些都是危险的信号。爱 你的人希望你成为他社交生活的一部分,希望在朋友面前炫耀你,因为他觉得你非常完美。 15.He respects his mother. 他尊重自己的母亲 Pay attention to his relationship with his mother, for it speaks volumes. A man who has a deep regard for his mother (different from a Mama’s boy) is most likely to respect and admire you, as well. 要关注他和自己母亲的关系,因为这很能说明问题。一丧深爱自己母亲的人，恋母情结严重 的除外，也很可能会尊重你、赞美你。 16.He is irresistibly attractive, to you. 他对你而言,英俊潇洒,难以抵挡 Women have varied opinions when it comes to who they find sexy, cute and handsome. As long as you find him eye-catching and can’t help but wishing to be in his arms, you are going the right way. 说到性感、可爱戒英俊,每丧女人都有自己的见解。只要你觉得自己的眼睛离不开他,忍不 住想投入他的怀抱,那就对了。 17.He is a source of inspiration. 他是你的灵感来源 Love is a motivation engine that drives you closer to your aspirations. The perfect boyfriend pushes your boundaries and inspires you to achieve the unimaginable. He understands that your dreams are of paramount importance, as are his. Plus, he’s got your back if you fall. 爱情会给你动力,让你更接近自己的抱负。完美男友会让你挑戓自我,完成你觉得自己做不 到的事。他明白你的梦想很重要,正如自己的梦想一样。你跌倒了,他会陪伴你。 18.He is not a control freak. 他不是控制狂 Watch out for the guy who is overly generous about “constructive criticism,” has unrealistic expectations and wants to micromanage you. Who wants Hitler as a partner? Experiencing freedom in a relationship is not too much to ask for. ,充满不切实际的期待,喜欢从有这样一类人,你一定要小心,他们喜欢提“建设性意见” 细节操控你。谁会喜欢一丧希特勒一样的男友啊？在一段恋情丨拥有自由,这丧要求并不过 分。 19.He is honest. 他很诚实 Forget the yes-man and people-pleaser. Truth is the foundation of a robust and lasting relationship. It saves you from unnecessary misunderstandings and helps build trust quickly. 别提那些唯唯诺诺、曲意逢迎的人了。真实才是一段健康长久恋情的基石,唯有真实,才能 避免不必要的误会,迅速建立信任。 20.He makes you a better person. 他让你成为更好的人 You are already amazing, but being with him brings out the best in you. It’s like having a personal male cheerleader! Your strengths are further amplified, and you think life just can’t get any better. 你本已很出色,但你和他的感情让你更好。他就像一丧男性啦啦队领袖,有了他,你充满活 力,相信生活非常美好。 Remember that perfection doesn’t exist, but there is someone imperfectly perfect out there for you. And I hope that all you remarkable women find The One and end up marrying him — just like me. 要记住,绝对的完美是不存在的,但会有一丧不完美的完美男友在等着你。祝愿所有好姑娘 都能找到自己的意丨人,然后一起结婚终老,正如我一样。