瑞信渣打邮件小三门

[瑞信渣打邮件小三门] 瑞信女控诉渣打小三陶丹阳英文来回邮件(四封邮件翻译完毕) · 时间：2010年3月 · 主角：瑞信大奶，渣打高管以及渣打小三陶丹阳 · 地点：投行 · 简介：瑞信女英文怒斥渣打小三事件中原配，丈夫和小三的三封英文电邮 最近网上疯狂流传几封瑞信渣打小三事件的邮件，情节曲折离奇，门新闻网经过多方探查，终于弄明白事情的来龙去脉，真可谓荡气回肠，峰回路转呀！ 为描述方便，先简单叙述故事大概： 大奶群发了一封email，给现任丈夫、小三和一堆共同相识的人，哀哀切切痛诉小三你带给我的家庭、我的两个孩子多么大的伤害。厉害的是，邮件附件是男人和小三去年圣诞节同游泰国的酒店住宿账单。 丈夫急眼了奋起反击，回复所有人说：我们8年前就开始闹矛盾，5年前就开始讨论离婚事宜，我的朋友都支持我离婚，你现在这样做毫无意义，小三没有做错任何事，我狂热地期盼着小三有一天能嫁给我。 小三过了一天也回复所有人：你们的婚姻早在我遇到此男之前就出问题了；你的孩子感到受伤是因为你不够圣母，你应该跟孩子说无论你和孩子爹感情如何你们作为父母都会分别、继续爱他们；我很奇怪你为什么死活要扯住一个男人不撒手，他都不爱你了你怎么还不乖乖离开？你工作那么好、那么多金、那么聪明、那么有前途，你可以去找个更好的呀，你扯住这个男人干嘛呀。最后，小三情深意切地劝说大奶：你可不能丢失了你自己呀。 下面来看四封原始邮件： 1、瑞信大奶发给渣打小三，群发给超多人的： 发件人: Zhang, Lily [mailto:lily.zhang@credit-suisse.com] 发送时间: 2010年2月23日 10:23 收件人: Tao, Diane; yiyang_tao@ml.com; Sun, Yonghong; Winn, Sean; Stevens, Joe; Dawson, Andrew; Morrison, Alastair; Huh, Charles; Chu, Mabel; Yee, Andrew; cici779200@yahoo.com.cn; liyi@junhe.com; delh@junhe.com; josieshen@sbcglobal.net; xy@vicap.com; dcwyml@hotmail.com; charles@chicapital.com; euniqueyoung@yahoo.com.hk; Shiu, Ruby; taeyubkim@sc.com; Lai, Daniel Xiao Ming; Li, Sherry Shao Ling; Yang, Sean; Zhang, Ting; Cheung, Clara Siu Yum; Wang, Cindy Xi; Zhu, Wei; xujane@gmail.com; Prince, Jamaliah 抄送: Yale Yang 主题: Dear friends … Moving on .. Dear friends, After 13 years and 2 beautiful children together, Yale and I have parted our ways. Yale moved out last week. Dear Diane/Tao Dan Yang, Over the past couple of years, you knew everything about my family. You knew when my kids had their soccer tournaments, you knew when they had their swimming practices. You even knew their baby nicknames. On December 18th, 2009, on a noon flight, I took my children to the U.S. for Christmas vacation. On the very same day, December 18th, 2009, on an afternoon flight, you and Yale took off for the beaches of Phuket and shopping streets of Bangkok for Christmas vacation. Diane, as a fellow woman, I often wondered if the level of ecstasy this vacation had brought you equates to the level of devastation this vacation had brought to my children and me. Diane, I often asked myself what was it like for you to sleep in the arms of another woman’s husband, other children’s father? I wondered if you ever thought about us, the children and the wife, that we are made of flesh and blood, that we have feelings, that we could get hurt, very hurt, devastatingly hurt. I pondered if you knew you were destroying a family, if you knew your joy would bring endless tears to us. We went to Beijing last week for Chinese New Year. Your clothes were in our Beijing home. My son screamed:” Mommy, don’t touch those, they are disgusting! Set them on fire, burn them to hell. They are the devil’s cloth!” My children are hurt. My daughter, 9 years old, now says “Mommy, I don’t ever want to get married.” My son, 8 years old, says “Diane is our Voldemort!” The psychological damage this affair has done to my children is catastrophic. They are forever emotionally damaged. With this, I announce you the winner. How do I feel, Diane? This affair is like 10 thousand knives stabbing and chopping my heart all at once. This affair has left me in so much pain that I don’t know how to heal myself. This affair has taught me tear supply can actually be infinite. This affair has crushed me, leaving me a corpse walking around with no heart. I don’t know how to deal with this kind of pain. I don’t know how to move on. But I have children. I must move on. Diane, I pray to God that you will never have to experience this kind of betrayal and hurt. I wish you and Yale a happy life together because, after all, we are all women and we all deserve to be happy. With sincere regards, Lily 2、一个小时不到，渣打丈夫回复，力挺渣打小三 发件人: Yale Yang [mailto:yale.yang@gbridge.biz] 发送时间: 2010年2月23日 11:14 收件人: Zhang, Lily 抄送: Tao, Diane; yiyang_tao@ml.com; Sun, Yonghong; Winn, Sean; Stevens, Joe; Dawson, Andrew; Morrison, Alastair; Huh, Charles; Chu, Mabel; Yee, Andrew; cici779200@yahoo.com.cn; liyi@junhe.com; delh@junhe.com; josieshen@sbcglobal.net; xy@vicap.com; dcwyml@hotmail.com; charles@chicapital.com; euniqueyoung@yahoo.com.hk; Shiu, Ruby; taeyubkim@sc.com; Lai, Daniel Xiao Ming; Li, Sherry Shao Ling; Yang, Sean; Zhang, Ting; Cheung, Clara Siu Yum 主题: Re: Dear friends … Moving on … Lily, Please do not bring the personal issues to the public. The truth of the facts is that our marriage had been falling apart 8 years ago, divorce had been in discussion 5 years ago. Our issues are known to all the people in the word! Diane had done nothing wrong for her part! I am firmly standing by and behind Diane. I will certainly hope she will marry me one day soon! Trying to tell the people how evil I am and Diane is in this way is not going to succeed! All the people, who knows you, me and our marriage, supported my divorce, including my good friend Zhu Wei. I am sorry I have dragged everyone into this. Lily please move on! Sincerely yours Yale 3、两天后，渣打小三回复 发件人: Tao, Diane 发送时间: 2010年2月25日 10:25 收件人: Zhang, Lily 抄送: Yang, Yale; yiyang_tao@ml.com; Sun, Yonghong; Winn, Sean; Stevens, Joe; Dawson, Andrew; Morrison, Alastair; Huh, Charles; Chu, Mabel; Yee, Andrew; cici779200@yahoo.com.cn; liyi@junhe.com; delh@junhe.com; josieshen@sbcglobal.net; xy@vicap.com; dcwyml@hotmail.com; charles@chicapital.com; euniqueyoung@yahoo.com.hk; Shiu, Ruby; taeyubkim@sc.com; Lai, Daniel Xiao Ming; Li, Sherry Shao Ling; Yang, Sean; Zhang, Ting; Cheung, Clara Siu Yum; Wang, Cindy Xi; Zhu, Wei; xujane@gmail.com; Prince, Jamaliah 主题: Re: Dear friends … Moving on … Dear Lily, I understand that you are going through a difficult time in your personal life, and I sincerely hope that you will find a way to deal with it that is the best for you and your children. I do understand how you feel. I also understand, however, that a marriage can only break apart from the inside. I do not appreciate your attempt to smear my reputation and paint me as the home wrecker. You know as well as Yale does that your marriage fell apart long before Yale and I even met. Whether or not I am in Yale’s life has nothing to do with the eventual outcome of your marriage. I am sure you understand this as well, but you nonetheless sought to burn me on the cross as the scapegoat for your failed marriage, which I do not believe is a mature thing to do. Your description of the emotional damage your children have suffered is disturbing indeed. I cannot help but wondering what you have been telling them. I would think that a mother’s first and foremost priority is to protect her children from any emotional damage, rather than using them as bargaining chips with a spouse or as props to win public sympathy. Yale is the children’s father and will always be. I am sure he will always love them and be the best father he can be to them. Wouldn’t it make more sense, for the sake of the children’s wellbeing, to emphasize to them that both their parents will always love them even though one parent will not be living with them all the time? I do not see what benefit there could possibly be to teach the children to hate their own father. You asked me how it was like to sleep in Yale’s arms. I also wanted to ask you, Lily, why would you want to hang on to someone who clearly does not want to be with you at all? Lily, you are intelligent, highly-educated and you have a high-paying and well-respected job. So why did you spend so much time and energy trying to force someone who does not care about you to stay with you? As a fellow woman I want to ask you this, don’t you think you deserve better? If there’s anything that is worse than sleeping in the arms of another woman’s husband, it is sleeping in the arms of someone who resents you, cannot stand you and wants to run away from you whenever he gets a chance. So Lily, why would you want to put yourself in that situation? Once again, don’t you think you deserve better? I sincerely hope that the pain you are currently feeling will subside soon and you can turn a new leaf in your life. Please remember, you can lose a job, you can lose a spouse, but you should never lose yourself. And please, do not vent your negative feelings on your children. They are innocent. Please always keep in mind their best interests rather than your own. You deserve true happiness, and I hope that you will find it soon. Best regards, Diane 4、大奶回信给小三 抄送: Yang, Yale; yiyang_tao@ml.com; Sun, Yonghong; Winn, Sean; Stevens,Joe; Dawson, Andrew; Morrison, Alastair; Huh, Charles; Chu, Mabel; Yee, Andrew; cici779200@yahoo.com.cn; liyi@junhe.com; delh@junhe.com; josieshen@sbcglobal.net; xy@vicap.com; dcwyml@hotmail.com; charles@chicapital.com; euniqueyoung@yahoo.com.hk; Shiu, Ruby; taeyubkim@sc.com; Lai, Daniel Xiao Ming; Li, Sherry Shao Ling; Yang, Sean; Zhang, Ting; Cheung, Clara Siu Yum; Wang, Cindy Xi; Zhu, Wei;xujane@gmail.com; Prince, Jamaliah 主题: Re: Damn You Diane: I thought that you should have dropped your pretentious ego by now; however your facial skin is much thicker than imaginable. Stunning. How dare you comment on my feelings? “I do understand how you feel” – oh really? If you do, you should be shivering under a wall by now, as if you have seen the reaphook of the Death himself. Let me demonstrate you a very small proportion of my hatred towards you which is still accumulating, after you robbed my man from my very bed. If one in a thousand of that hate is concentrated in a droplet it is enough to poison a nation. Do you know what fills my mind? Vengeance, retribution. I shall have your head with dropping blood, hang on my walls so that I can appreciate an example of indignity once every hour. I shall slit your throat before the eyes of your “love”, letting him witness the true blood color of a whore, which stinks of lust. I can think of a thousand way to end your miserable pathetic life, but why bother? You will burn in eternal flame anyway. Satan has reserved a fine slot for you in Hell, where your sinful soul will repay an endless debt! And yet don’t make yourself too conformable either when your heart still beats. You think it has ended? It never ends. The man who abandoned me will abandon you in the same cause. Value your moment in the arms of Yale, for they will soon find a new mistress after the depreciation of your inglorious little face. When the time comes, I shall acquire immense satisfactory. Best regards Lily 各位看官如果英文不好的，可以看网友义务翻译的版本 先翻一下女的： 亲爱的Diane和陶丹阳，你几年前就知道了我家庭的一切：你知道我的孩子的球赛，游泳课甚至他们的小名。在09年12月18号的下午航班，我带着孩子们去美国过圣诞；而在同一天的另一个 下午航班，你和Yale飞向普吉岛的海滩、曼谷的购物街去过圣诞。Diane，作为一个 女人，我真好奇你的假期带给你的精彩程度是否等于我和孩子们假期的糟糕程度？ Diane，我也一直好奇你躺在别人丈夫、别人孩子父亲的怀抱里感觉如何？我同样好奇是否你曾考虑过我们——孩子和妻子，作为血肉之躯、作为有情有义、作为也会受 伤——灾难般的伤痛的人们。我一直在权衡思量，你是否知道你是在摧毁一个家庭，是否你知道你的喜悦带给我们的是无限的泪水。 上周我们在北京过春节，在北京的家中我们看到了你的衣服。我的儿子尖叫 着说妈妈别碰它们！真恶心快烧了它吧，这是恶魔的布（衣服）！我的孩子们受到伤 害了。我9岁的女儿现在说“妈妈我将来不想结婚”，而我8岁的儿子说“Diane是我们的伏地魔！”这件事给孩子们的心理伤害已经成为了灾难，他们永久性地被情感伤害。是的，我承认你赢了。 我会怎样想，Diane？这件事就像是万把尖刀蹂躏我心；这件事已经留下了太多痛苦，我不知道如何医治自己；这件事给了我太多的眼泪；这件事早已粉碎我，使我如同行尸走肉。我不知道如何处理这样的痛苦。我不知道如何继续。不过，我有孩子。我必须继续前进。Diane，我向老天爷祈祷你永远不会遇到这样的背 叛和伤害。我祝你和Yale幸福生活在一起，因为，毕竟，我们都是女性，我们都应该得到幸福。 网友的中文翻译版: 老公的回信 Lily，请不要把私事公开化好吧。事实的真相就是我们的婚姻8年前就开始破碎了，离婚也被讨论了5年。我们的情况被世界上所有人所知！Diana就其个人所作所为并无错误！我将坚定地等待并且站在她的身后。我也将坚信她在不久的将来会嫁给我！ 渣打小三陶丹阳的回复中文翻译版 我能理解你正在经历人生中非常艰难的时刻，真心希望你能度过难关，为你自己和你的孩子们找到方向。 我真的能理解你此刻的感受，但是我也理解，一个婚姻只能被从内部打破。你不可以把我抹黑成一个害人的妖婆。你和Yale都清楚，你们的婚姻实际上早在我和Yale相遇前就已经破裂了。无论我是否出现在Yale的生活中，你们这场婚姻的结局早已注定。我相信你对这一点非常清楚，但是你还是要把我作为你们婚姻失败的替罪羊，这真的不是成熟的人该做的。 你对你的孩子们所有的情感伤害的描述令人心碎，我忍不住要问，你到底对他们说了些什么？我想一个母亲最重要的责任是保护她的孩子们免收感情的伤害，而不是利用他们作为争取公众同情的筹码。Yale现在是也永远将是孩子们的父亲，我相信他会永远爱他们并且尽他所能做好一个父亲。告诉孩子们，他们的父母都会永远爱着他们，虽然父母中的一个以后不和他们生活在一起，难道不是一种对他们更有益的方式吗？教他们去恨他们的父亲又有何好处呢？ 你问我怎么可以睡在Yale的怀抱里。我也要问你，Lily，为什么非要死死缠住一个根本不想和你在一起生活的人？Lily，你聪明、有教养、高收入，有体面的工作，为什么你要花时间，全力以赴去强迫一个根本不在乎你的人和你在一起？同样作为一个女人，我想问你，难道你不应该有更好的生活吗？如果有比躺在别人丈夫的怀里更糟糕的事情，那就是躺在一个恨你、不支持你并想抓住一切机会从你身边逃走的男人的怀里。所以，Lily，为什么你非要这样生活，再问你一遍，你不觉得你可以活得比这个样子更好一点吗？ 我真诚地希望你此刻经历的伤痛会尽快消退，你的生活将翻开新的一页。记住，你可以失去工作、失去丈夫、但你永远不能迷失自己。也请你不要把自己的负面情绪发泄在孩子的身上，他们是无辜的。请永远优先考虑他们的利益而不是自己的。你值得得到真正的快乐，希望这一天不会来的太晚。 祝福你。 瑞信正房回复渣打小三 网友翻译版，如果在国外收到这样一封邮件，渣打小三可以去报警了！ Diane： 我认为你现在应该要丢下你的狂妄自大。然而没想到的是你的脸皮比我想象的要厚的多，令我印象深刻！ 你竟敢对我评头论足？！！“什么我懂你的感受” 哦？！是吗？如果你懂，如果你看到过死神的镰刀，你应该现在蹲在墙角颤抖。在你从我的身边抢走了我的男人之后，让我向你说清楚我对你的一小部分的仇恨还在加速膨胀，如果一个人把自己千万的恨汲取成一小滴就足够毒死一个国家的人了！你知道吗，现在我的脑子都被什么充斥着？复仇和报复！！我应该拿着你滴血的头挂在我的墙上好让我每分钟欣赏我的侮辱的过往！ 我应该要撕碎你的喉咙，让Yale看看一个荡妇的血是怎么样的，闻闻一个淫荡的女人的恶臭。我想过一千种途径去结束你那下贱的命，但是我干嘛要这样做呢？你反正会被烧成灰烬的！因为撒旦在地狱里面为你准备了一个好地方，在那里你罪恶的灵活会让你永不超生！ 提醒你，当你还活着的时候别让自己太舒服！你以为这样就结束了，不，永远不会！这个抛弃我的男人也会因为同个理由抛弃你的啊，哈哈！ 珍惜你在Yale怀抱中的每一刻把，因为他会在你老了以后找到新的女人，如果那时候来临，我会很开心的。