What happens in your head at night,
new science reveals, is more important
than you think I B Y M I C H A E L J . W E I S S
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Our dreams may affect our lives (and vice versa) more
than we ever realized, says groundbreaking new research.
For 11 years, a 58-year-old anthropologist kept a journal of
nearly 5,000 dreams. By analyzing color patterns in the
dreams, Arizona-based researcher Robert Hoss could
accurately predict certain things about the man’s emotional
state. Hoss correctly identified two separate years when
the man experienced crises in his life. The anthropologist
confirmed that in 1997 he had clashed with a colleague
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over a management issue, and in 2003
he’d had a falling out with a friend that
left deep emotional scars.
How was Hoss able to gauge the
dreamer’s turmoil? “The clues were
in the colors,” he says. The anthropol-
ogist’s dominant dream hues were
reds and blacks, which spiked during
difficult times. “Even without knowing
the events in his life,” Hoss observes,
“we accurately determined the emo-
tional states based on those colors in
his dreams.”
Hoss is among a growing group of
researchers who, thanks to cutting-
edge medical technology and inno-
vative psychological research, are
beginning to decipher the secrets
hidden in our dreams and the role
dreaming plays in our lives. A look at
some of their latest discoveries can
give us new insights into the language
of dreams and help us make the most
of our time asleep.
Why Do We Dream?
Dreams are a way for the subcon-
scious to communicate with the con-
scious mind. Dreaming of something
you’re worried about, researchers say,
is the brain’s way of helping you re-
hearse for a disaster in case it occurs.
Dreaming of a challenge, like giving
a presentation at work or playing
sports, can enhance your performance.
And cognitive neuroscientists have
discovered that dreams and the rapid
eye movement (REM) that happens
while you’re dreaming are linked to
our ability to learn and remember.
Dreaming is a “mood regulatory
system,” says Rosalind Cartwright,
PhD, chairman of the psychology
department at Rush University Medi-
cal Center in Chicago. She’s found that
dreams help people work through the
day’s emotional quandaries. “It’s like
having a built-in therapist,” says
Cartwright. While we sleep, dreams
compare new emotional experience
to old memories, creating plaid-like
patterns of old images laid on top of
new ones. As she puts it, “You may
wake up and think, What was Uncle
Harry doing in my dream? I haven’t
seen him for 50 years. But the old and
new images are emotionally related.”
It’s the job of the conscious mind to
figure out the relationship.
In fact, dream emotions can help
real therapists treat patients under-
going traumatic life events. In a new
study of 30 recently divorced adults,
Cartwright tracked their dreams over
a five-month period, measuring their
feelings toward their ex-spouses. She
Dreams help people work through
the day’s emotional quandaries.
It’s like having a built-in therapist.
discovered that those who were an-
griest at the spouse while dreaming
had the best chance of successfully
coping with divorce. “If their dreams
were bland,” Cartwright says, “they
hadn’t started to work through their
emotions and deal with the divorce.”
For therapists, this finding will help
determine whether divorced men or
women need counseling or have
already dreamed their troubles away.
One Interpretation
Doesn’t Fit All
No device lets researchers probe the
content of dreams while we sleep, but
scientists are finding new ways to in-
terpret dreams once we’ve awakened.
Forget Freud’s notion that dreams con-
tain images with universal meanings
(e.g., cigar=penis). A new generation of
psychologists insists that dream sym-
bols differ depending on the dreamer.
In a recent study, University of Ottawa
psychology professor Joseph De Kon-
inck asked 13 volunteers to make two
lists: one of details recalled from
recent dreams, and another of recent
events in their waking lives. When an-
alysts were asked to match which vol-
unteer experienced which dream, they
failed. De Koninck’s conclusion: Each
person understands his or her dreams
better than anyone else—including tra-
ditional psychoanalysts. In a dream,
sometimes a cigar is just a cigar—or
almost anything else.
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Your Brain on Dreams
A century after Sigmund Freud pioneered the field of dream
analysis, scientists are only now decoding the biology of how
we manufacture dreams. At the Sleep Neuroimaging Research
Program at the University of Pittsburgh Medical Center, re-
searcher Eric Nofzinger, MD, delves into the brains of sleeping
subjects using PET scans normally employed to detect cancer
and other diseases. (The orange color, right, signals brain activ-
ity in the cortex.) By injecting subjects with mildly radioactive
glucose, he’s traced the source of dreams to the limbic system,
a primitive part of the brain that controls emotions. During
dreaming, the limbic system explodes like fireworks with
neural activity, suffusing our dreams with drama.
“That’s why so many dreams are emotional events,” says
Nofzinger, “where we’re running from danger or facing an anx-
ious situation. The part of the brain that controls dreams also
orchestrates our instincts, drives, sexual behavior and fight-or-
flight response.” Meanwhile, the frontal lobes of the brain that
govern logic disengage, explaining why dreams are often
bizarre combinations of events and people.
Awake state
REM sleep
“There’s just no evidence of univer-
sal dream symbols,” says De Koninck.
“My advice is to throw away your
dream dictionary if you really want
to interpret your dreams.”
Decoding the
Meanings
Today, psychologists are applying
modern technology to probe the con-
tent of dreams. Hoss uses a computer-
based approach called content analy-
sis to interpret the colors in dreams.
More than 80 percent of people
dream in color, he says, though only
a quarter of them recall the shades
the next morning. To collect data, he
analyzed nearly 24,000 dreams, cat-
alogued in two databases at the Uni-
versity of California, Santa Cruz, and
Bridgewater State College in Massa-
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Upgrade Your Dreams
What can you do to recall your dreams more often and interpret them more
clearly? The experts offer these tips:
Incubate an idea. Before you go to sleep, consciously think about a topic or a
person you’d like to dream about. Pose a question that’s troubling you and see
how your dream responds to it.
Keep track. Next to your bed, place a pad and pen, or a tape recorder or lap-
top, to record your dreams as soon as you wake up.
Try to awaken naturally, without the help of an alarm clock or barking dog that
can disrupt your dream cycle. If your schedule doesn’t allow you to sleep in dur-
ing the week, begin your dream journal on a weekend or during a vacation.
Wake up slowly. For the first moment after you awaken, lie still and keep your
eyes closed, because your dream may be connected to your body position while
you slept. Try to recollect the dream and then store it in your memory by giving
it a name like “Late for an Exam” or “My Date with Ashley Judd.” When you rise,
immediately write down as many images, feelings and impressions as you can.
Connect the dots. To better interpret your dreams, try to make connections
between your recalled dreams and recent events. Do you recognize people from
the present or past? Can you detect any themes from the dream? Look for pat-
terns over several dreams that might help explain an individual dream.
Change the outcome. If you have recurring nightmares that make it difficult to
sleep, try to change the endings. Once you awaken from a bad dream, visualize a
change in the action to create a more positive outcome. If you are trapped, try to
fly. In your dream, you can do what you want!
Be patient. It may take days or weeks before you’re able to recall your dreams
in detail, but the experts advise to keep practicing. Dream memories are fragile,
and trying to recall all the plot twists and turns on consecutive nights seems to
have a cumulative effect.
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chusetts. His study suggested that
specific colors represent particular
emotions (for example, red means
action, excitement and desire; blue
equals calmness, tranquility and
harmony; black connotes fear, anxi-
ety and intimidation).
But, as with symbols and action, one
size doesn’t fit all when it comes to
interpretation. Every dreamer draws
on a different palette to reflect per-
sonal associations. “Using color is
your brain’s way of painting your
dreams with your emotion,” says Hoss,
who just published his results in
Dream Language (Innersource, 2005).
Some researchers scoff at the need
for computers or even therapists to
interpret dreams. Psychologist Gayle
Delaney, PhD, founding president of
the International Association for the
Study of Dreams, believes that dream-
ers themselves are the best inter-
preters of their time in dreamland.
She supports a “dream interview”
technique, which asks people to an-
swer a series of straightforward ques-
tions in order to gain insights into
their recollections. From her office in
San Francisco, Delaney uses this
process to help single people analyze
and better understand their romantic
relationships through their dreams.
Delaney tells of one client who
dreamed of her new boyfriend swim-
ming in the ocean. Above the water,
he looked like an adorable seal, but
below the water he was a vicious
shark. When asked about her
boyfriend’s personality, the woman
conceded that he had a violent
streak—a fact she consciously tried
to ignore. “It was clear that this
woman had misgivings about a darker
side to her boyfriend,” says Delaney.
“The dreaming mind is more insight-
ful about the people in your life than
your waking mind.” The woman broke
up with her boyfriend soon afterward.
What Dreams Can
Do for You
Psychologists have long known that
people can solve their problems at
work and home by “sleeping on it.”
The challenge has always been to train
yourself to dream up the solutions.
Deirdre Barrett, PhD, an assistant psy-
chology professor at Harvard Medi-
cal School and editor of the journal
Dreaming, advises individuals to pon-
der questions just before falling asleep
(Should I take this job? Should I marry
that guy?) and then let the subcon-
scious provide the answers. “I’ve
More than 80% of people dream
in color, and specific colors may
represent particular emotions.
known artists looking for inspiration
who simply dream up a future show of
their art and wake up with plenty of
new painting ideas,” says Barrett.
“More and more people are learning
these techniques to control their
dreams.”
Some researchers believe that you
can guide your dreams while you’re
sleeping. In recent years, Stephen
LaBerge, PhD, has pioneered a way of
directing the sleeping mind through
“lucid dreaming,” in which a sleeping
person realizes he or she is dreaming
while it is happening. Lucid dreamers
can experience fantasy adventures—
like flying to the moon, traveling
through time or making love on a
beach—while being fully aware that
they’re dreaming. “It’s like a poor
man’s Tahiti,” says LaBerge, a psy-
chophysiologist who directs the
Lucidity Institute in Palo Alto, Cali-
fornia. “Just being in a lucid dream is
a turn-on for people.”
According to LaBerge, lucid dream-
ers can use the experience for a vari-
ety of purposes: problem solving,
developing creative ideas and heal-
ing. Patricia Keelin, a 55-year-old
graphic cartographer from northern
California, has used lucid dreaming
for everything from talking to her
long-dead father to gorging on sweets.
“Chocolate always tastes better in a
lucid dream because you don’t have
to worry about the calories,” she says.
A weak swimmer in her waking life,
she often likes to go skin diving when
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Making Peace With Grief
Our dreams can help us untangle our emotions about people who are no longer
with us, according to psychologist Patricia Garfield, PhD, who’s written nine
books on dreams. After her husband of 33 years died in 2002, Garfield developed
a theory that grieving people experience “dream seasons” while mourning the
loss of loved ones.
During the first season, akin to the traditional period of grief, people dream
destructive images. “I dreamed of sweeping up shattered glass, like the shatter-
ing of a life,” Garfield recalls. Later, in the second dream season, people experi-
ence chaotic dreams filled with swirling emotions of sadness and guilt. “People
feel isolated in this season,” she says. “Older women get depressed and the sui-
cide rate among older men shoots up.”
Finally, in the third dream season, individuals transfer their recollections to
precious memories, and their dream images turn positive with new life. “I
dreamed of babies, reflecting the length of time since my husband died,” says
Garfield, who’s interviewing other widows about their dreams for a forthcoming
book on the subject. “After three months, I dreamed of looking at an infant in a
baby carriage. After six months, I dreamed of an adorable baby sitting up and
laughing. Dreams have a special power to help us let go of someone we love.”
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dream, diving to the bottom of the
dream ocean without worrying about
breathing (or her swimming skills).
“It’s exhilarating,” she says. “Lucid
dreaming is great because it’s free and
available to everybody.”
Well, not entirely free. Although
everyone has the potential to dream
lucidly, it rarely happens routinely
without special training or tempera-
ment. The Lucidity Institute operates
instructional workshops and retreats
to spread the gospel. LaBerge has even
developed a $500 device—called the
NovaDreamer (novadreamer.com)—
which helps individuals become par-
ticipants in their dreams. Once the
sleep-mask-like device recognizes the
wearer is experiencing REM sleep
characteristic of dreaming, it emits a
flashing red light that is designed to
seep into the person’s dream. “It’s like
being at the opera and realizing the
flashing lights at intermission mean
the opera is about to start again,” says
LaBerge. “The cue says that you’re
dreaming so you can open yourself up
to any kind of experience you want.
After all, it’s your dream.”
Indeed, your dreams are like private
movies where you are the star, direc-
tor and writer all at once. And as the
latest research indicates, you are also
the most insightful movie critic—
without the need of a couch. The best
interpreter of your dreams is you.
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