自信不自信不重要,请随时保持自身的舒适(Self confidence, lack of confidence, and no importance, please always feel comfortable)
自信不自信不重要,请随时保持自身的舒适(Self confidence, lack
of confidence, and no importance, please always feel
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Eriksen published in the 2010-3-24 14:19 | only see the author | reverse browse | print
Previously it was easy to unconsciously get the other's response and give the other person a feeling
Now more and more feel that this is sometimes counterproductive
Self confidence, we have been pursuing the so-called self-confidence.
Only now has it been found that self-confidence and lack of confidence are not important at all
Some people ask, "are you a confident person?"
You can answer it completely. I don't think I'm confident
Many times, when I meet a girl, I think she feels comfortable and confident
But usually their response is, "I don't feel confident, okay?"
And from the other person's body language and easy attitude. In fact, she is very confident
Later, I gave up the show of confidence, and didn't want to leave any impression I expected
Instead, I feel relaxed
The powers of observation become sharper
This state of affairs will make me feel the stability of my emotions
And the stability of this emotion, usually makes me feel that I do not have the so-called strong, not weak
It's kind of hard to describe what this state is
But I vaguely sensed that it was a good condition.
It's probably "do yourself"
But there is a difference between being yourself and exposing yourself
There seems to be no intention of doing it
A little contradictory, and a little vague about this feeling
For example, you are angry, in a certain environment, you get angry, well, there is nothing to let you take care of
The mood or embarrassment of being angry is sometimes true and acceptable
Instead, you'll be more conscious of the real you than by
pretending to be generous or being calm
And the more real people, the mood can be very
three-dimensional.
And the timely display of DHV this point, I think that is your attitude, do their own attitude.
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High profile, men published in the 2010-3-25 16:57 | only see the author
That is, the so-called state of mind slightly, the mentality of less than, pretending to come out of confidence will make people feel uncomfortable. The feeling of constipation...
Talking about communication with girls, happiness and comfort are the ideal conditions.
On this basis, joking and suppressing are natural
But I haven't done it yet.
I'm nervous being alone with the girls,
Sometimes you feel unnatural talking to a guy,
I read your article,
Feel a bit,
Study...
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High profile, men published in the 2010-3-25 17:00 | only see the author
What it says is unnatural and embarrassing,
Sometimes I don't know what to say when I say it,
Very embarrassed,
Is there any good way?
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Eriksen published in the 2010-3-25 18:08 | only see the author
Reply 3# high profile, man
Sometimes people come into this situation,
Generally speaking, the psychological state of conversation is deliberately seeking the topic
Then the more people talk, the other doesn't respond
The human subconscious feels a little out of sorts and feels awkward
The suggestion is that when you first meet, you don't have to think about finding any topic
Make yourself comfortable
Or when you really feel like you need to find something to talk about
You can be quite frank. I want to find something to talk to
But now I don't know what I talk, talk about some of my life to you embarrassed.
Then, you recall the life inside the interesting, a bit embarrassed to talk about things
The premise is that you have to feel the fun of these things yourself
Speak out, you will infect each other
When you're really relaxed, you don't feel awkward
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Published in the 2010-3-25 18:38 blue snail | only see the author
Feel out. Instead of deliberately pursuing what state, but will
have this state. It is easier to be honest with yourself than to be honest. Because the other person will not feel the danger. It's possible to show yourself and pretend to be a race. Being yourself and relaxing yourself is really good.
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The day published in the 2010-3-26 12:52 | only see the author
This feeling is not the LZ said intentnesses, do you want to do, do not know how to describe a kind of comfortable feeling
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The day published in the 2010-3-26 12:55 | only see the author
You don't need other people's approval. You don't care about other people's attitudes very much. Even if you don't feel friendly about others, your mood will not fluctuate
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Xbw228 published in 2010-3-30 19:49 | only see the author
I feel quite reasonable. Sometimes I'm too nervous. Where's the least bit of confidence?. Keep yourself relaxed even when you're not confident. It's no big deal.
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Liubq687 published in 2010-3-31 14:15 | only see the author
Is a precipice, One can be austere without selfish desires.
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High profile, men published in the 2010-4-1 18:02 | only see the author
Thank you very much for your reply, there is a way to follow, that is better than their own groping
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A8239290sc published in 2010-4-1 19:52 | only see the author
Excellent article.
I am also struggling, self-confidence and self-confidence is their problem.
...??? Making yourself comfortable is the best
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Published in the 2010-4-1 21:17 | wood kamikaze only see the author
Some people are self abased, like me? Well, I'm optimistic
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There is a strong feeling about this state of mind
Look at the world in a different light
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After a long period of internalization and a day of mutation,
this feeling occurs
Look at the world in a different light
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yxyhenan发表于3,天前|只看该作者
在中意的人面前,保持舒适的状态之前,要是没有强大的自信支撑,
后果是不敢想像的,因为你可能舒适的小像丑一样
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pizza611发表于3,天前|只看该作者
呵呵,文章真是”耐人寻味”
我不认为只要跟你说”你要保持舒适,你要自信”,你就能舒适,就
能自信了
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心瘾发表于前天,|只看该作者17:22
接纳才是真自信~~~~~
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