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Sleep birth – 3 months
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Allow him to suck on a dummy or thumb
(dummies should not be used until
breastfeeding is established at about
six weeks).
Look after yourself
Almost all adults find interrupted sleep
makes them feel tired and irritable, and
relationships can suffer.
Try to keep your own life not too hectic
when the baby is young.
Take breaks when you can.
Catch up on sleep. Sleep or rest when
your baby sleeps, day and night.
Take the phone off the hook.
Ask for and accept help when it is offered.
Put a DO NOT DISTURB sign on your
front door.
Remember to get some exercise –
walking is good.
Join a group of other new parents.
For more information contact
Local community child health nurse
See inside your baby’s purple ‘All About
Me’ book, in the phone directory under
‘Child Health Centres’ or
www.health.wa.gov.au
Local family doctor
Ngala Helpline
8:00am–8:00pm 7 days a week
Telephone (08) 9368 9368
Outside metro area –
*Freecall 1800 111 546
www.ngala.com.au
Parenting WA Line
Telephone (08) 6279 1200 (24hr service)
Outside metro area –
*Freecall 1800 654 432
SIDS and Kids WA
Telephone (08) 9474 3544
Outside metro area -
*Freecall 1800 199 466
www.sidsandkidswa.org
* Calls made from a mobile may be
charged at a timed rate.
sleep
birth - 3 months
By three months many are settled into a
pattern of longer sleep times – perhaps four
to five hours at night. When a baby sleeps
about 5 hours straight this is considered
‘sleeping through the night’.
Ideas for settling
Routines to get ready for sleep
At this age babies are often relaxed and
sleepy after a feed. Some develop a pattern
of waking often and needing a feed to settle.
Some babies are helped by a daytime
pattern of feed and then settling after a
small play, cuddle, talk and touch. Watch
your baby’s signals for when he is alert and
wanting to play and when he is sleepy.
Some young babies tend to be more
wakeful in the evening or night rather than
during the day. It helps babies learn about
day and night if you settle them at night
in a quiet, dark place and don’t play with
them or do anything that makes them
more wakeful.
Even with young babies you can start a
bedtime ritual. You may sing a little song,
kiss goodnight, find the dummy (if he
has one) and then give a gentle kiss with
some special soft words of love when you
put him down.
Tired signs – sleep cues
As you get to know your baby you will start
to learn when he is sleepy and needs to be
put down for sleep. Long before they can talk
babies have tired signs or sleep cues in their
behaviour that show you what they need.
Your baby will have his own special sleep
cues but here are some that most babies
have that will give you a start in watching for
your baby’s cues:
yawning
jerky movements
becoming quiet, not wanting to play
"grizzling" or fussing
rubbing their eyes
making a sleepy sound
crying
facial grimaces, i.e. pulling faces
clenched fists
waving arms and legs about.
If you miss the tired signs and don't help
your baby to settle your baby may get more
alert and overtired and be very hard to get
to relax and sleep. Signs that the baby has
got overtired include being very overactive,
stare-y eyes, and being very quick to cry.
Settling
Put your baby on his back for sleep. Often
a tired newborn will accept being put into
his cot while awake and will fall asleep on
his own. Some new babies settle best in a
quiet, dark place, others settle more easily
in lighter, noisier places. Some babies are
harder to settle than others and many need
help to relax into sleep.
Some things to try to settle your baby:
Wrap him in a thin cotton sheet.
Rock him in a pram, cot or your arms for
a short period and then settle him into
bed (a baby should not be left to sleep
unsupervised in a pram).
Settle him in the cot and then pat him with
a cupped hand. Start patting quickly and
then slow down as he calms. Pat at about
the pace of your heartbeat.
Push him in a pram back and forth over
a bumpy surface such as the edge
between your carpet and tiles or over
footpath bumps.
Have some constant noise such as
humming, singing a little song, relaxing
music or household noise – some babies
relax if they can hear the vibration noise
of the washing machine or dryer.
Check that he is not too hot or cold, and
that clothing is not too tight.
A warm bath.
Offer another feed, (often called a
‘top-up’ feed).
Baby sleep
In the first few weeks after birth, babies sleep
much of the day and night. Most wake two to
three times during the night for feeds.
Babies have shorter sleep cycles than adults
and wake or stir about every 40 minutes.
By three months, many babies will have settled
into a pattern of longer times awake during
the day, and longer sleep times (perhaps four
to five hours) at night. Most will still be waking
once or twice during the night for feeds.
Sleeping baby in a safe cot next to the
parents’ bed for the first six to twelve months
reduces the risk of sudden infant death,
including SIDS, as long as the room is
smoke free. Sharing a bed with a baby for
sleep has led to the deaths of some babies.
Secure attachments in infancy are the base
for good mental health. A major need for
secure attachment is for a parent to respond
to infant needs and cues. It is important not to
leave your baby to cry.
Daytime and night time patterns
Very young babies have little idea of day or
night and most wake regularly around the
clock every two or three hours needing a
feed and attention.
In the first few months it is common for
babies to wake regularly at night for feeds
at least two or three times. As a guide,
many babies sleep 14-20 hours a day in
the first weeks.
By three months many are settled into a
pattern of longer sleep times – perhaps four
to five hours at night. When a baby sleeps
about 5 hours straight this is considered
‘sleeping through the night’.
Ideas for settling
Routines to get ready for sleep
At this age babies are often relaxed and
sleepy after a feed. Some develop a pattern
of waking often and needing a feed to settle.
Some babies are helped by a daytime
pattern of feed and then settling after a
small play, cuddle, talk and touch. Watch
your baby’s signals for when he is alert and
wanting to play and when he is sleepy.
Some young babies tend to be more
wakeful in the evening or night rather than
during the day. It helps babies learn about
day and night if you settle them at night
in a quiet, dark place and don’t play with
them or do anything that makes them
more wakeful.
Even with young babies you can start a
bedtime ritual. You may sing a little song,
kiss goodnight, find the dummy (if he
has one) and then give a gentle kiss with
some special soft words of love when you
put him down.
Tired signs – sleep cues
As you get to know your baby you will start
to learn when he is sleepy and needs to be
put down for sleep. Long before they can talk
babies have tired signs or sleep cues in their
behaviour that show you what they need.
Your baby will have his own special sleep
cues but here are some that most babies
have that will give you a start in watching for
your baby’s cues:
yawning
jerky movements
becoming quiet, not wanting to play
"grizzling" or fussing
rubbing their eyes
making a sleepy sound
crying
facial grimaces, i.e. pulling faces
clenched fists
waving arms and legs about.
If you miss the tired signs and don't help
your baby to settle your baby may get more
alert and overtired and be very hard to get
to relax and sleep. Signs that the baby has
got overtired include being very overactive,
stare-y eyes, and being very quick to cry.
Settling
Put your baby on his back for sleep. Often
a tired newborn will accept being put into
his cot while awake and will fall asleep on
his own. Some new babies settle best in a
quiet, dark place, others settle more easily
in lighter, noisier places. Some babies are
harder to settle than others and many need
help to relax into sleep.
Some things to try to settle your baby:
Wrap him in a thin cotton sheet.
Rock him in a pram, cot or your arms for
a short period and then settle him into
bed (a baby should not be left to sleep
unsupervised in a pram).
Settle him in the cot and then pat him with
a cupped hand. Start patting quickly and
then slow down as he calms. Pat at about
the pace of your heartbeat.
Push him in a pram back and forth over
a bumpy surface such as the edge
between your carpet and tiles or over
footpath bumps.
Have some constant noise such as
humming, singing a little song, relaxing
music or household noise – some babies
relax if they can hear the vibration noise
of the washing machine or dryer.
Check that he is not too hot or cold, and
that clothing is not too tight.
A warm bath.
Offer another feed, (often called a
‘top-up’ feed).
Baby sleep
In the first few weeks after birth, babies sleep
much of the day and night. Most wake two to
three times during the night for feeds.
Babies have shorter sleep cycles than adults
and wake or stir about every 40 minutes.
By three months, many babies will have settled
into a pattern of longer times awake during
the day, and longer sleep times (perhaps four
to five hours) at night. Most will still be waking
once or twice during the night for feeds.
Sleeping baby in a safe cot next to the
parents’ bed for the first six to twelve months
reduces the risk of sudden infant death,
including SIDS, as long as the room is
smoke free. Sharing a bed with a baby for
sleep has led to the deaths of some babies.
Secure attachments in infancy are the base
for good mental health. A major need for
secure attachment is for a parent to respond
to infant needs and cues. It is important not to
leave your baby to cry.
Daytime and night time patterns
Very young babies have little idea of day or
night and most wake regularly around the
clock every two or three hours needing a
feed and attention.
In the first few months it is common for
babies to wake regularly at night for feeds
at least two or three times. As a guide,
many babies sleep 14-20 hours a day in
the first weeks.
By three months many are settled into a
pattern of longer sleep times – perhaps four
to five hours at night. When a baby sleeps
about 5 hours straight this is considered
‘sleeping through the night’.
Ideas for settling
Routines to get ready for sleep
At this age babies are often relaxed and
sleepy after a feed. Some develop a pattern
of waking often and needing a feed to settle.
Some babies are helped by a daytime
pattern of feed and then settling after a
small play, cuddle, talk and touch. Watch
your baby’s signals for when he is alert and
wanting to play and when he is sleepy.
Some young babies tend to be more
wakeful in the evening or night rather than
during the day. It helps babies learn about
day and night if you settle them at night
in a quiet, dark place and don’t play with
them or do anything that makes them
more wakeful.
Even with young babies you can start a
bedtime ritual. You may sing a little song,
kiss goodnight, find the dummy (if he
has one) and then give a gentle kiss with
some special soft words of love when you
put him down.
Tired signs – sleep cues
As you get to know your baby you will start
to learn when he is sleepy and needs to be
put down for sleep. Long before they can talk
babies have tired signs or sleep cues in their
behaviour that show you what they need.
Your baby will have his own special sleep
cues but here are some that most babies
have that will give you a start in watching for
your baby’s cues:
yawning
jerky movements
becoming quiet, not wanting to play
"grizzling" or fussing
rubbing their eyes
making a sleepy sound
crying
facial grimaces, i.e. pulling faces
clenched fists
waving arms and legs about.
If you miss the tired signs and don't help
your baby to settle your baby may get more
alert and overtired and be very hard to get
to relax and sleep. Signs that the baby has
got overtired include being very overactive,
stare-y eyes, and being very quick to cry.
Settling
Put your baby on his back for sleep. Often
a tired newborn will accept being put into
his cot while awake and will fall asleep on
his own. Some new babies settle best in a
quiet, dark place, others settle more easily
in lighter, noisier places. Some babies are
harder to settle than others and many need
help to relax into sleep.
Some things to try to settle your baby:
Wrap him in a thin cotton sheet.
Rock him in a pram, cot or your arms for
a short period and then settle him into
bed (a baby should not be left to sleep
unsupervised in a pram).
Settle him in the cot and then pat him with
a cupped hand. Start patting quickly and
then slow down as he calms. Pat at about
the pace of your heartbeat.
Push him in a pram back and forth over
a bumpy surface such as the edge
between your carpet and tiles or over
footpath bumps.
Have some constant noise such as
humming, singing a little song, relaxing
music or household noise – some babies
relax if they can hear the vibration noise
of the washing machine or dryer.
Check that he is not too hot or cold, and
that clothing is not too tight.
A warm bath.
Offer another feed, (often called a
‘top-up’ feed).
Baby sleep
In the first few weeks after birth, babies sleep
much of the day and night. Most wake two to
three times during the night for feeds.
Babies have shorter sleep cycles than adults
and wake or stir about every 40 minutes.
By three months, many babies will have settled
into a pattern of longer times awake during
the day, and longer sleep times (perhaps four
to five hours) at night. Most will still be waking
once or twice during the night for feeds.
Sleeping baby in a safe cot next to the
parents’ bed for the first six to twelve months
reduces the risk of sudden infant death,
including SIDS, as long as the room is
smoke free. Sharing a bed with a baby for
sleep has led to the deaths of some babies.
Secure attachments in infancy are the base
for good mental health. A major need for
secure attachment is for a parent to respond
to infant needs and cues. It is important not to
leave your baby to cry.
Daytime and night time patterns
Very young babies have little idea of day or
night and most wake regularly around the
clock every two or three hours needing a
feed and attention.
In the first few months it is common for
babies to wake regularly at night for feeds
at least two or three times. As a guide,
many babies sleep 14-20 hours a day in
the first weeks.
By three months many are settled into a
pattern of longer sleep times – perhaps four
to five hours at night. When a baby sleeps
about 5 hours straight this is considered
‘sleeping through the night’.
Ideas for settling
Routines to get ready for sleep
At this age babies are often relaxed and
sleepy after a feed. Some develop a pattern
of waking often and needing a feed to settle.
Some babies are helped by a daytime
pattern of feed and then settling after a
small play, cuddle, talk and touch. Watch
your baby’s signals for when he is alert and
wanting to play and when he is sleepy.
Some young babies tend to be more
wakeful in the evening or night rather than
during the day. It helps babies learn about
day and night if you settle them at night
in a quiet, dark place and don’t play with
them or do anything that makes them
more wakeful.
Even with young babies you can start a
bedtime ritual. You may sing a little song,
kiss goodnight, find the dummy (if he
has one) and then give a gentle kiss with
some special soft words of love when you
put him down.
Tired signs – sleep cues
As you get to know your baby you will start
to learn when he is sleepy and needs to be
put down for sleep. Long before they can talk
babies have tired signs or sleep cues in their
behaviour that show you what they need.
Your baby will have his own special sleep
cues but here are some that most babies
have that will give you a start in watching for
your baby’s cues:
yawning
jerky movements
becoming quiet, not wanting to play
"grizzling" or fussing
rubbing their eyes
making a sleepy sound
crying
facial grimaces, i.e. pulling faces
clenched fists
waving arms and legs about.
If you miss the tired signs and don't help
your baby to settle your baby may get more
alert and overtired and be very hard to get
to relax and sleep. Signs that the baby has
got overtired include being very overactive,
stare-y eyes, and being very quick to cry.
Settling
Put your baby on his back for sleep. Often
a tired newborn will accept being put into
his cot while awake and will fall asleep on
his own. Some new babies settle best in a
quiet, dark place, others settle more easily
in lighter, noisier places. Some babies are
harder to settle than others and many need
help to relax into sleep.
Some things to try to settle your baby:
Wrap him in a thin cotton sheet.
Rock him in a pram, cot or your arms for
a short period and then settle him into
bed (a baby should not be left to sleep
unsupervised in a pram).
Settle him in the cot and then pat him with
a cupped hand. Start patting quickly and
then slow down as he calms. Pat at about
the pace of your heartbeat.
Push him in a pram back and forth over
a bumpy surface such as the edge
between your carpet and tiles or over
footpath bumps.
Have some constant noise such as
humming, singing a little song, relaxing
music or household noise – some babies
relax if they can hear the vibration noise
of the washing machine or dryer.
Check that he is not too hot or cold, and
that clothing is not too tight.
A warm bath.
Offer another feed, (often called a
‘top-up’ feed).
Baby sleep
In the first few weeks after birth, babies sleep
much of the day and night. Most wake two to
three times during the night for feeds.
Babies have shorter sleep cycles than adults
and wake or stir about every 40 minutes.
By three months, many babies will have settled
into a pattern of longer times awake during
the day, and longer sleep times (perhaps four
to five hours) at night. Most will still be waking
once or twice during the night for feeds.
Sleeping baby in a safe cot next to the
parents’ bed for the first six to twelve months
reduces the risk of sudden infant death,
including SIDS, as long as the room is
smoke free. Sharing a bed