ELIZABETH KINGDOM?
COHABITATION CONTRACTS AND THE DEMOCRATIZATION OF
PERSONAL RELATIONS
ABSTRACT. Feminist opposition to the use of cohabitation contracts for the private
regulation of personal relations has been predicated on the classical reading of contract
as commerce. On this reading, cohabitation contracts construct cohabitants’ obligations
as commercial and typically detrimental to women because of their weaker bargaining
power. But the premisses of classical contract theory are being undermined by radical
critiques which emphasize the importance of relationality in the reading of contract. On
such critiques, the obligations constructed by cohabitation contracts need no longer exclude
considerations of the parties’ different financial status and social circumstances. The con-
struction of cohabitants’ obligations can accordingly foreground fairness and equality, both
in drafting and in enforcing cohabitation contracts. In this way, the conceptualization
of contract as relationality encourages the use of cohabitation contracts as progressive
mechanisms for the democratization of personal relations.
KEY WORDS: cohabitation contracts, commerce, democracy, relationality
Classical contract law constructs the obligations holding between the
contracting parties as commercial. If this doctrine is extended to cohabi-
tation contracts, the obligations which law constructs between the cohabit-
ants are similarly commercial. But because the law presumes that
unmarried cohabitants are in a sexual relationship, legal doctrine permits
the striking down of cohabitation contracts on the grounds that they
are immoral, and illegal, in the sense that they promote illicit sexual
relationships.
If the premisses of classical contract law are challenged, however, the
conclusion that cohabitation contracts must be unlawful no longer follows
with such certainty. Radical critiques of contract law are gaining ground
in academic analyses of contract law, and they typically point to the
way in which law itself is attending to questions of fairness and reason-
ableness in the reading of specific contracts. The effect is that contracts
need no longer be read as creating exclusively commercial obligations,
nor predominantly in terms of the intention and consent of the parties
and the validity of the clauses. More positively, these radical critiques
? Senior Lecturer, Department of Sociology, Social Policy and Social Work Studies,
University of Liverpool (E-mail: kingdom@liverpool.ac.uk).
Feminist Legal Studies 8: 5–27, 2000.
© 2000 Kluwer Academic Publishers. Printed in the Netherlands.
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emphasize the importance of relationality in the analysis of contract and
make it possible to see how contracts can construct obligations informed
by norms of a more progressive nature than those typically associated
with the model of contract as commerce. For example, the shift from
contract as commerce to contract as relationality facilitates a shift away
from the norms of self-interest and competitiveness and toward the norms
of altruism and co-operation.
The shift from contract as commerce to contract as relationality, partic-
ularly as it impacts on the issue of cohabitation contracts, is of considerable
interest to feminists. Regardless of whether their interests lie in the specific
field of law, feminists have tended to be politically hostile to contract as
an ideology for reading social relations. They have argued that contract,
with its reliance on the ideology of the formal equality and free will of the
contracting parties and on the ideology of their abstract nature, detached
from real social circumstances, conceals the unequal bargaining power
typical of women and men. Cohabitation contracts between women and
men would accordingly be a prime example of the concealment of this
inequality, with the effect that the institution of contract between cohab-
itants would reproduce the unequal social relations typical of women and
men.
The strength of this feminist critique is not in doubt. But it is predicated
on the classical reading of contract as commerce. Once the premisses
of classical contract law are loosened, however, this feminist critique
of cohabitation contracts is similarly challenged. In this article, I argue
that the shift from the model of contract as commerce to the model of
contract as relationality has the effect that the obligations constructed by a
cohabitation contract need no longer be seen as necessarily detrimental to
women.1
The article divides into four main sections. The first section, English
Law’s Resistance to the Use of Cohabitation Contracts, comprizes some
1 An important corollary of this critique is that the obligations constructed by a
cohabitation contract between same-sex partners need no longer be seen as necessarily
detrimental to a financially weaker party. For feminism no longer gives automatic priority
to the political interests of women as a single and homogeneous population. See Kingdom
(1999, pp. 158–160). Accordingly, a feminist critique of cohabitation contracts is not
confined to protecting the interests of women. It extends to a concern for the interests of all
persons who have not been adequately protected by law and for the situation of everybody
who sees the use of cohabitation contracts as a useful alternative both to marriage and to the
lottery of equity for the regulation of their personal relations. See also Mee (1999, passim);
Kingdom (1991, pp. 93–100); Kingdom (1996, pp. 47–58). So, whilst the primary focus
of this article is the reading of cohabitation contracts as they affect women, it periodically
foregrounds the implications of that reading for same-sex partners.
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“state-of-the-nation” remarks about English law’s current resistance to the
use of cohabitation contracts. The second section, Feminist Opposition
to Cohabitation Contracts, is an overview of feminist opposition to such
contracts, opposition predicated on the commerce model of contract. The
third section, Feminist Ambivalence over Cohabitation Contracts, shows
how, even in those feminist legal writings which favour the use of cohabita-
tion contracts, there is an indication of why feminists might keep the jury
out on the matter of their legal recognition. Briefly, this ambivalence is
predicated on feminists’ readings of contract as undergoing shifts from
contract as commerce to a model of contract as power and protection.
These new readings can be strengthened by the support of radical critiques
of contract, and the fourth and final section, Contract as Relationality,
exhibits three such critiques and points to their potential for the analysis of
cohabitation contracts as progressive mechanisms for the democratization
of personal relations.
ENGLISH LAW’S RESISTANCE TO THE USE OF COHABITATION
CONTRACTS
Standard texts on contract law routinely refer to the unlawful nature
of cohabitation contracts.2 Similar warnings appear in standard texts on
family law.3 They also appear in the standard texts dealing specifically
with cohabitation contracts.4 The legal doctrine behind this reading is
complex. For convenience, I term it “the immorality doctrine” and for ease
of exposition I extract eight components from Gloag’s observation that
A contract having as its object the furtherance of illicit sexual intercourse is illegal.5
The eight components are
� the presumption that contracting cohabitants are sexually involved
� the presumption that this sexual involvement is the object the consid-
eration for which is the basis of all the other clauses in the contract
2 See for example Winfield (1950, pp. 284–286); Cooke and Oughton (1989, p. 153);
Elliott and Quinn (1999, p. 154).
3 See for example Hoggett and Pearl (1991, p. 346), and for background reading on
aspects of family law relating to cohabitation, see Chapter 8 passim; see also Bromley and
Lowe (1992, pp. 10–11); see further Dewar (1992, p. 69), and the useful Chapter 2 on
Marriage and Cohabitation.
4 The definitive text remains Barton (1985); for specific reference to the immorality
doctrine, see Chapter 3. See also Lush (1993, p. 145, n. 1; Oliver (1987, Paragraph 209);
Parker (1987, pp. 144–147); Priest (1993, p. 84); Samuelson (1992, p. 24).
5 Gloag (1929, p. 562).
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� the presumption that the said sexual involvement takes the form of
heterosexual intercourse
� the presumption that this heterosexual intercourse takes place
between men and women who are not married to each other
� the definition of this heterosexual intercourse as an act of prostitution
� the designation of prostitution as illicit sexual intercourse, where
“illicit” typically means “not authorised by law or custom”
� the inclusion of illicit sexual intercourse in the category of immoral
actions
� the inclusion of immoral actions in the category of illegal actions.
Not one of these eight components, taken individually, could survive a
nanosecond’s critical analysis, so the tenacity of the immorality doctrine
is remarkable. So, too, is the tenacity of the parallel doctrine that the legal
recognition of cohabitation contracts would undermine the institution of
marriage and for that reason be contrary to public policy. But the signs are
that the days of these doctrines’ ability to hold back the legal recognition of
cohabitation contracts in the UK are numbered.6 It is politically opportune,
6 The present administration’s Ministerial Group on the Family advocates the legal
enforceability of pre-nuptial contracts (Supporting the Family, 1999, Section 4.12). The
document makes no explicit comparable proposal regarding people who cohabit. Indeed,
the document is so evasive concerning such people (see 4.15) that its title should really
be Supporting Marriage. See also The Law Society (1991, Paragraphs 3.23–3.40). The
Law Society included under the heading “marriage contracts” contracts between people
before or during marriage; it did not consider contracts drawn up between cohabitees,
though it noted the similarity of their likely terms and reasons for use. More recently,
however, the Law Society has extended its advocacy of the legal enforceability of contracts
to those between cohabiting couples (1999). See also Scottish Law Commission (1992).
The Scottish Law Commission’s Discussion Paper No. 86 (May 1990) had provisionally
recommended that contracts between married persons be accorded legal recognition (see
9.1). But in my consultative document submission (copy with author), I criticised the use
of the technique of using spouses as the criterion for cohabitants and I recommended that
the wording of The Committee of Ministers of the Council of Europe recommendation
of 7 March 1988 be followed. The Scottish Law Commission ackowledged this point and
the eventual wording of the recommendation is “87. A Contract between cohabitants or
prospective cohabitants relating to property or financial matters should not be void or
unenforceable solely because it was concluded between parties in, or about to enter, this
type of relationship” (1992, p. 127). In the Scottish context, a small study of Edinburgh
lawyers revealed a willingness, qualified by various degrees of enthusiasm, to add cohabita-
tion contracts to their style files. See Kingdom (1994, pp. 8–9). The radical solution to the
grey area between pre-nuptial, marital and cohabitation contracts is to propose the legal
recognition of contracts between cohabitants regardless of marital or sexual status. This
is precisely what Teresa Gorman proposed when speaking to the Cohabitation (Contract
Enforcement) Bill (11 June 1991) Bill 175, HMSO. The bill did not succeed, of course,
and, as noted above, it is much more likely that legal recognition of cohabitation contracts
will, at least in the first instance, be the legal recognition of pre-nuptial contracts.
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then, to examine the grounds of feminist hostility to the use of cohabitation
contracts.
FEMINIST OPPOSITION TO COHABITATION CONTRACTS
It is clear that the immorality doctrine is predicated on the model of
contract as commerce. Prominent feminists have shared this reading of
contract, with the result that they have been hostile to contract both as
a means of reading social relations and as a mechanism for the private
regulation of personal relations.7 Their opposition is similarly grounded
in a reading of contract as commerce. Despite their distinctive positions,
they all predicate their opposition to contract on their critique of contem-
porary social relations as characterised by economic inequality between
women and men, on the function of contract ideology to obscure the
gendered nature of bargaining power, and on law’s reproduction both
of that economic inequality and of women’s inferior status as parties
to contract. In this section, I distinguish five versions of this critique:
contract as male right over women; contract as Gesellschaft; contract as
reproduction of market inequalities; contract as gendered distribution of
wealth; and contract as patriarchal colonization of lesbian aspirations.
These five versions are exemplified by the work of Carole Pateman, Ngaire
Naffine, Frances Olsen, Gail Brod, and Ruthann Robson and S.E. Valentine
respectively.
7 An early, and laudable, exception is A. Bottomley et al. (1981). In the Kent seminar
discussion, Anne Bottomley advocated caution over how UK feminists should receive the
American feminists’ hostility to contract as a mechanism for the regulation of personal
relations where their arguments are directed against pre-nuptial contracts. Her point is
that a distinction must be drawn between these contracts and contracts between people
who are not married and who intend to remain so. This is a strong argument, because pre-
nuptial contracts, by definition, reflect legislation governing the disposal of assets and other
arrangements on divorce. On the other hand, the chief argument used by American and
other feminists against pre-nuptial contracts has the same form as the argument directed
against cohabitation contracts, namely that women’s economic disadvantage in social life
will be reproduced in the terms of any contract which they sign with a male partner. In
this chapter, then, whilst mindful of Bottomley’s warning, I consider arguments for and
against cohabitation contracts irrespective of whether they are between married persons
or non-married persons. At the same time, I would justify concentrating on the American
literature on the grounds that in the UK the legal recognition of contract for the regulation
of personal relations is more likely to follow the American example (see supra n. 5) than to
introduce legislation governing a broader range of issues concerning de facto relationships
of the kind enacted in, for example, Sweden. For a useful introduction to that legislation,
see Bradley (1989).
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Contract as male right over women
Pateman’s book8 has probably been the most influential feminist text
shaping contemporary feminist hostility to contract. She takes issue with
the political fiction of the social contract, on the grounds that it presupposes
the sexual contract. The sexual contract establishes both men’s polit-
ical rights over women and their orderly access to women’s bodies. The
fiction of the marriage contract is problematic for Pateman, both because
it is unwritten and because its official ideology, that of the irrelevance of
gender to contract, conceals the inequalities of status between women and
men.9 Pateman argues powerfully that under the institution of the marriage
contract women are exchanged, just as if they were property.10
Pateman’s reading of the marriage contract conceptualizes contract on
the model of commerce, a contract for access to sexual property. She impli-
citly supports feminist critiques of the marriage contract which point to
the way in which the economic inequality of women other than middle
class women and professional women is an obstacle to their negotiating a
cohabitation contract.11
Contract as Gesellschaft
Naffine follows Pateman’s hostility to the contractual view of social life.12
She maps her critique of the classic model of contract on to the distinction
between the principles of Gesellschaft and Gemeinschaft, the principles
of individualism and collectivism respectively. Her argument is that both
classic and modern contract law conceptualize legal persons as “free and
equal owners of commodities . . . all similarly equipped to engage in trans-
actions which will redound to our personal advantage.” Naffine notes,
further, that it is the function of law to secure the rights of persons to
form contracts the terms of which they choose and from which they stand
to benefit.13 At the same time, Naffine observes, the law does not allow
8 Pateman (1988).
9 See also Hoff (1991). Hoff argues that the shortcomings of the unwritten marriage
contract are not remedied by introducing new forms of contract for the regulation of
personal relationships. Her reasons are that the expectation that parties to any such contract
are equal is undermined by the institutionalization of female inequality and that there is a
strong likelihood of any such contract being unfair so long as young women (and women
with no money for legal advice) are encouraged to marry for love rather than for economic
considerations.
10 Pateman (1989, pp. 59–60).
11 Pateman (1989, p. 155).
12 Naffine (1990, p. 71).
13 Naffine (1990, p. 73). For a sociolegal account of the alleged shift in Western law
from the Gemeinschaft ideology of the fraternal bonds of comradeship or kinship to the
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husband and wife to draw up contracts in this way, but interprets the
marriage contract in terms of the husband’s entitlement to the wife’s unpaid
domestic services.14 Both in her own critique of law and in drawing atten-
tion to the immorality doctrine, Naffine operates with a reading of contract
as commerce.
Contract as reproduction of market inequalities
Olsen’s position is that reform strategies to improve the lives of American
women have occurred within an ideological world view which perceives
social life to be divided between the separate but interdependent spheres
of the family and the market.15 The article includes a powerfully argued
objection, in principle, to the importation of a market mechanism – the
contract – into the private sphere of the family. In particular, she is
sceptical of the concomitant importation into the family of the market
ideology of equality, with the effect of legitimating forms of inequality and
domination, such as unequal earning capacity and emotional inequality.
Regardless of the marital status of women entering into such contracts,
Olsen proposes that “[I]n the same way that contracts in the marketplace
may formalize domination as much as they express the will of the parties,
contracts among lovers and friends may reflect and perpetuate the inequal-
ities in their relationships.”16 Olsen’s argument is predicated on a reading
of contract as commerce, such that the use of cohabitation contracts for the
private regulation of personal and domestic relations becomes the vehicle,
as it were, for the reproduction of women’s market inequality.
Contract as gendered distribution of wealth
In a closely argued article, Brod draws on social science research to
show that premarital contracts disproportionately harm women as a socio-
economic class and skew the unequal division of wealth along gender
Gesellschaft ideology of the Weberian “community of strangers” characterized by specific
and limited contract, see Cotterrell (1984, pp. 125–130). For a critique of the alleged
incompatibility of community and contract, see Unger (1986, pp. 63–66 and 86–87).
14 Naffine (1990, p. 70).
15 Olsen (1983). Olsen’s argument is in direct contrast to the pioneering work of Lenore
Wei